People who grow up without grandparents are missing out on a different type of love and wisdom. Inter-generational relationships provide you with a deeper understanding of your place in the world.
We under-estimate the impact of limiting contact with grandparents may have on society. We almost completely ignore the significant role of older generations in a society obsessed with youth culture.
There are some fabulous models of grandparents who are a vibrant part of their grandchildren’s lives. One grandfather I know has made books from excursions he takes with his grandkids. He takes photos of himself with them at the zoo, or on a train ride and then sticks them in a book and writes a simple story explaining the events of the day.
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This grandad is capturing the relationship and giving it a life beyond a time when he will no longer be around. These storybooks will form a strong part of that family’s history.
Inter-generational relationships are very important. We can’t afford to be distracted and let this aspect of our culture slide. This is about more than just losing touch with a part of history. These relationships are an integral part of ourselves.
We need to consider them now, before it is too late.
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Journalist and columist with The Age, Sushi Das says he is ‘one of today’s young rebels’. Author and ethicist Leslie Cannold has referred to him as one of her ‘gorgeous men’.
Daniel Donahoo is fellow with OzProspect, a non-partisan, public policy think tank. He writes regularly for Australia's daily papers and consults on child and family issues. A father to two boys. Daniel's first book is called Idolising Children and explores our society’s obsession with childhood and youth. Updates on Daniel's work can be found at www.danieldonahoo.com.
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